Filipino Talents

I have been living in Norway for 7 years now and I have not attended a single Filipino gathering until last weekend. I hope you do not take this in a negative way. Not that I do not like socializing with Filipinos in Norway, I just did not have the time and energy (getting old. Haha!). Here are some photos of the display of talents during the gathering.

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Filipinos in general love music. There was singing and dancing in the party. The program was entertaining especially for the Norwegian guests. I almost forgot, the food was SUPERB!!!!

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Filipinana & Barong Tagalog. These are 2 of our traditional clothes. Traditionally, these clothings are made of pineapple leaves or abaca silk. They are used in formal occassions.

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Me and friends (Dulce and Shiela)

By the way, there was an announcement at the party that a Filipino-Norwegian joined the Miss Norway this year. Her name is Kirby Ann Basken. She joined Miss Norway last year and landed second place. She also joined the Mutya ng Pilipinas 2006 and became Miss Asia Pacific International. and You might want to give your support by voting for her. Click here to vote.





Letting Kids Grow Up

Last year, my eldest daughter Angelika Jane asked me if she could see the Shakira concert in Oslo. I said it would be okey as long as she has more than 1 friend that would go with her. The concert was on March 11 at Oslo Spectrum and she had 3 friends with her. It is her first time to go out at night and in Oslo! We, of course drove her and picked her up at the venue. She probably think we are nuts repeating all the warnings. Do not go to the toilet alone. Do not talk to strangers. Do not go out of the building without your friends. Do not... do not... do not...

Her first night out in Oslo went well. She enjoyed the concert very much. I should have not been worried after all. Generally, Oslo is a very safe place and Oslo Spectrum for that matter.

While we were waiting for A.J., we had the chance to go back to our old neighborhood at Ekeberg and visited our neighbor and good friends Elizabeth Walker (an American) who is married to Terje Gewelt. We had a very good time with them. We found out that the new album Terje released is doing very well in the market. If you are into Jazz, you might want to check out NORWEGIAN SONG. Highly recommended! Not because I am partial to Terje being my friend. The album comprises of Norwegian folk songs and 2 of Edvard Grieg's compositions. Ved Rondane (By the Rondane Mountains) and Arietta. Lucky for me, I got a free copy.

Oslo at night
This is the view I miss.

Nellie
Terje & Elizabeth's -- Nellie the dog
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Yesterday was "Barnehage Dag" (Kindergarten day). There was an assembly of kids at the Nordbytjerne and I was there like a stage mother following her kid around. LOL.

Barnehage dag
There were about 1000 kids in this assembly

Fun in the sun
... and some kids just want to use some energy a little...

T & K
Tatyana and Kristian having a time out from running around

Nordbytjerne
The still frozen Nordbytjerne

Getting Healthy!

The last few weeks, my neighbor and I started walking 4 times a week (evenings). I am an incurably lazy person but I started liking this activity. We walk on our own pace. It gives me more energy and I sleep much better. Amazingly, I even walk with my neighbor even when it is snowing.

One of the farms in our area (Taken with N70)

This is one of the walking paths we follow. (Taken with N70)

Our backyard (Taken with N70)

I am looking forward to the spring and walk around Jessheim. It would be really nice to see the trees and plants starting to wake up.

Fish soup

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Let me clear that I am not a very good cook and I probably do not know whether the measurements of all the ingredients are correct so, bear with me.

500 g. fish fillet
1 or 2 pcs. carrot cut into small cubes
1 onion ( I use 2 --- I love onions)
1 spring onion or (some purreløk) (so sorry I do not know what this is in English! )
Butter
Flour
2 dl milk
Fish bullion

Cook the vegetables with the fish bullion and half a liter of water. Heat the butter and mix with some flour. Pour the milk and the vegetable soup. Cut the fish into small bits. Put it in the soup. You can also add a little sour cream (if you like).

When Friends Become Enemies

I am sorry to disappoint you for not posting any pictures of Norway (again). I have been busy the last few weeks doing some leg work.

As some of you know, I went into business with a very good friend last year. He was one of our dearest family friends. I even socialize with his whole family. I met him 5 years ago when he bought a whole set of kitchen from us. After that, we became very good friends in and out of business.

We put up a company doing renovation work for private homes based in England. The plan was I was to be in charge of designing and sales and he would be in charge of the carpentry work. It was a perfect plan. My husband and I started noticing little things that were disturbing. When we registered the company in Norway, I called his attention to why I do not have any signature rights at the company registration in Norway. I do not know how he talked us out of it but he was convincing. This thing though, has been in my mind all the time.

We went to the bank and opened a company account. The bank noticed that he doesn't have a registered permanent address. (Again, this kept me thinking) We both applied for company visa cards. I got mine after a week and he told me that he has not received his. Since my husband and I have our own bank adviser, I called our adviser and asked why my business partner's card has not been issued. Her answer was very polite and discreet. She said that my business partner should call the bank. I asked him to call and he said that if the bank does not want him as a customer, he does not want to make business with them. Again, this made me think.

Although, I had my doubts, I waited. The first transaction went well. He used the company account. I started asking him that I would take over the financial part of the company. My excuse is that I was still waiting for the contract from the factory when in fact, I stopped selling to see what was going on. He said that it was easier for him to make the bills and also contracts, etc. I waited. He used his personal account on the next bill, and the next and the next. We asked him about this and he said that it was easier for him to use his own account.

He paid our carpenters' salary in cash. (who pays salary in cash these days??) Deducted 35% tax. I asked him to use the bank account of the carpenters and he said that he didn't have them. I told him that I have them.

I received bills from collection agencies that the company has not paid some bills. I started confronting him about the things that I am doubtful about. I asked him about the accounting. He promised and promised and nothing was happening. We knew that we would never get the accounting papers from him.

The last few weeks that I have been busy doing some legwork, we discovered that the taxes for the carpenters were not paid. We were informed that he still doesn't have a recorded residence in Norway and that he and his wife are separated on government files. We know that they are living together and they are always together. We also found out that the Value Added Tax were not paid. The Employer Tax was not paid. Our carpenters were not registered as employees in our company. This I found out by going to the tax offices. The tax office staff were really helpful. They told me what steps to take and they would help me with the rest.

We have recently learned that this is not the first time he has done this. It is so unfortunate because we treated him and his whole family as friends. It is really sad to find out that swindlers can be dressed as friends.

I learned my lessons. I am opening a new company in the first week of April and I have a new business partner, my husband.

PS. I have forgiven what he has done and I am not after any compensation but I could not just let this go since our employees are involved. I had to report the situation to the necessary government agencies so that the employees would not pay unnecessary taxes this year.
 

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